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6 ПРАВИЛ ФОРМУЛИРОВАНИЯ КОНФЛИКТНОЙ СИТУАЦИИ

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Июн 12, 2017

Правило 1. Помните, что конфликтная ситуация – это то, что надо устранить.

Следовательно, не годятся формулировки типа: “конфликтная ситуация – в этом человеке”, “в социально-экономической ситуации”, “в нехватке автобусов на линии” и т.п., ибо мы не имеем никакого права устранить человека вообще, социально-экономическую обстановку в одиночку ни один из нас не изменит и числа автобусов на линии не увеличит.
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Правило 2. Конфликтная ситуация всегда возникает раньше конфликта.
Конфликт же возникает одновременно с инцидентом. Таким образом, конфликтная ситуация предшествует и конфликту и инциденту.
Не случайно в первой формуле конфликта на первом месте стоит КС, затем И и уже потом К.
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Правило 3. Формулировка должна подсказывать, что делать.
Например, в последнем случае конфликтные ситуации показали, что нужно впредь вести себя более воспитанно (не плеваться, в частности); не допускать падения своего имиджа, авторитета.
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Правило 4. Задавайте себе вопросы “почему?” до тех пор, пока не докопаетесь до первопричины, из которой проистекают другие.
Если вспомнить аналогию с сорняком, то это означает: не вырывайте только часть корня, оставшаяся часть все равно воспроизведет сорняк.
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Правило 5. Сформулируйте конфликтную ситуацию своими словами, по возможности не повторяя слов из описания конфликта.
Суть в том, что при рассмотрении конфликта обычно много говорится о его видимых сторонах, то есть о самом конфликте и об инциденте. К пониманию конфликтной ситуации мы приходим после некоторых умозаключений и обобщения (объединения) разнородных составляющих. Так и появляются в ее формулировке слова, которых не было в первоначальном описании.
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Правило 6. В формулировке обойдитесь минимумом слов.
Когда слов слишком много, мысль не конкретна, появляются побочные нюансы и т.п. Вот уж как нигде уместен афоризм “краткость – сестра таланта”.

Конфликтная ситуация – это диагноз болезни под названием “конфликт”. Только правильный диагноз дает надежду на исцеление.

Если вы понимаете, что часто конфликтуете с окружающими людьми, то лучше всего  – это принять решение пройти тренинг по бесконфликтному поведению.
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